People deal with death in different ways. When my father passed away, I got a couple of tattoo's and a nipple piercing. When my sister passed away last year my brother in law bought a 54 inch big screen tv, and a Harley Davidson which he is keeping in the family room till spring. Let me clear that up a bit. The big screen is in the living room, and the Harley is in the family room till spring, but he only starts the Harley up on special occasions. I don't know what would have upset my sister more, the big screen, the Harley, or the fact that he had an artificial tree for xmas. More power to him.